在最難熬的08年中旬看到的一部片子
女人靠在沙發上說出的這段話 一直都記得




l know it's hard to believe people
when they say, “l know how you feel”

l understand feeling as small
and as insignificant as humanly possible,

and how it can actually ache in places
that you didn't know you had inside you,


and it doesn't matter
how many new haircuts you get

or gyms you join or how many glasses of
chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,

you still go to bed every night
going over every detail,

and wonder what you did wrong
or how you could have misunderstood.

And how in the hell, for that brief moment,
you could think that you were that happy?


And sometimes you can even
convince yourself that he'll see the light

and show up at your door.

And after all that,
however long all that may be,


you'll go somewhere new

and you'll meet people
who make you feel worthwhile again,

and little pieces of your soul
will finally come back.

And all that fuzzy stuff,

those years of your life that you wasted,

that will eventually begin to fade.


分手之後的男女就好像是要進行的非開旅行 最後無非兩種結局 還想和你看遍世間風景 或者 把你放在記憶的風景里 只是在經歷過這一切之後 人還是可以重新開始 再遇到值得付出的人然後 一點點地重新拾回信心 而那些模糊的回憶 那麼多年浪費掉的時光 終究會開始慢慢消逝 對於這點我始終深信不疑